MaxxMale Book Review
Tanya age:20
Body Language Secrets
A Guide During Courtship And Dating
by R. Don Steele
This book will help you find, meet, talk with, and date the right kind of person. Don Steele tells you honestly and bluntly how you can make the right impression and have a big impact at every social gathering. 50 photos, plus his sound methods and practical advice let you know what to look for as well as what to watchout for!
WOMEN, learn how you can easily get noticed, then interest and attract the right type of man, someone you can trust. As you talk, you will know if he's telling the truth by the way he stands or sits and how he touches you or himself.
MEN, learn how you can tell from across the room if she's interested by her gestures and the way she changes her posture. During conversation, find out if she's leading you on or if she's sincerely interested in you.
Body Language Secrets is a book for the average guy who wants an "edge" in the courtship and dating game. It is written in a simple, straightforward style with many photos to illustrate the techniques discussed.
When you finish Body Language Secrets you will know who's lying to you and who's lusting for you! You will recognize the signals for "I'm Interested" and "Don't Bother Me" and learn how to attract, interest and date the right type of man (or woman). BLS also covers when to keep talking and when to move on, how to appear confident and relaxed and how to know when you are coming on too strong. Men will learn the seven things women want and be shown easy to learn gestures to let you tell a woman you're strongly attracted.
Is Body Language For Real?
In the late 1800s, Charles Darwin noted that the meanings of many human gestures was the same the world over. He also noted that some human gestures had the same meaning for the apes as they did for us!
About 70 years later, the science of kinesics, the technical name for body language, was formalized by Dr. Ray Birdwhistell in the early 1950s. BLS makes a very strong case for the importance of body language in human relationships.
I have to admit that I gave scant attention to body language until I read this book. Oh, sure, I knew that arms folded across the chest meant that a person was closed, but I had no idea how many subtle actions indicated quite clearly what a man or woman was thinking in their heart of hearts. Mastery of body language will not only permit you to "read" another person more accurately than words, but will also let you "signal" your intentions non-verbally to someone you are interested in.
From What Is Body Language
The natural experts on body language are pets and kids. My cat knows when I'm angry with her, when I'm indifferent and when I'm ready to feed her.
A child knows when Mommy's happy or when Daddy's lying.
Cats have never read a body language book, and neither have kids, yet they know exactly what we (you, me, everyone) are feeling. As we are "educated" by our culture we lose our innate ability to read and speak body language.
Everything is body language--tone of voice, clearing our throats, rubbing our eyes, crossing our arms, tapping or toes, touching our nose--everything except the words we say.
Your eye contact, or lack of eye contact, communicates. Your pauses communicate. Your crossed legs communicate. Your open hands communicate. Your aroma communicates.
In particular, your appearance communicates: hair style, type of eye glasses, accessories, tattoos and your overall choice of attire.
How you are dressed is a major part of the message you send, but , it is an even larger part of howyour listeners receive it. The way you are dressed dictates how others respond to you.
You cannot not communicate. No matter what you do, or don't do, you broadcast your emotional state. Even if you put on a poker face and sit perfectly still, you loudly announce, "I'm trying to hide what I'm feeling."
Each of us reveals our emotional state with non-verbal signals. During courtship, and later in a romantic relationship, knowing what the other person is feeling helps you behave appropriately. But, to know what that person is experiencing,you must attack the environment with your eyes, ears and yes, your intuition.
Body Language is a quick, fun read. You will carry it's advice with you for the rest of your life. And, after all, isn't that what a good book is supposed to do? Change your life for the better in little ways.
Other books by R. Don Steele: Office Politics: The Woman's Guide To Beat the Old Boy System and Gain Financial Success. How To Date Young Women For Men Over 35.